Alas'to Dhonmi

Name: Alas'to Dhonmi
Nickname/s: Alas
Age: 28 (ARR)
Nameday: 02/11
Height: 5'6"
Gender: GNC Trans Man
Pronouns: He / Him / His
Race: Miqo'te (Keeper of the Moon)
Guardian: Menphina
Birthplace: East Shroud
Home: Revenant's Toll, Mor Dhona
Affiliations: Scions of the Seventh Dawn, Sylphs, Moogles, Immortal Flames; Path of the Twelve (previously)
Orientation: Bisexual
Canon Jobs: Dragoon, Dancer; Bard (previously)

Thancred Waters★ ★ ★ ★ ★
♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥It's... complicated.Alas'to and Thancred were extremely close friends prior to the Banquet and often went out drinking together, sometimes flirting but never saying anything directly. Then, when Thancred went missing and was presumed dead, Alas'to had the sinking realization that he'd been in love with his best friend. Assuming he'd never get closure, Alas'to moved on, only to have his next chance at love die in his arms.Then, while spiraling in his grief, Thancred showed up again. Both of them had changed drastically since that fateful night in Ul'dah, but their feelings hadn't. They had their first (sober) kiss deep in Vath territory in the middle of a fight and everything after was a bit of a whirlwind.Then, while they were sorting out their respective emotional baggage, Thancred got called to the First.So like... yeah. They had a lot of shit to work through during Shadowbringers, but the important part is that they did. Now, they're practically attached at the hip whenever they aren't on separate missions.Naturally, none of this takes their relationship prior to the Calamity into account.When Alas'to was a simple bard, he met Thancred for the first time in Ul'dah. Then they met again, and again, and again, and again, slowly falling in love as Alas'to's legend grew. But as Dalamud came closer and closer, Alas'to was deployed to Cartenau in a desperate attempt to save the world and Thancred was left in the city to grieve an inevitable loss.And grieve he did, though he didn't remember who, not until his trip through the Lifestream courtesy of Y'shtola.→ A Second First Meeting

Urianger Augurelt★ ★ ★ ★ ☆
♥ ♥ ♥ ♡ ♡Honestly, Alas'to found him intriguing but generally incomprehensible back in his early days with the Scions. Their relationship was kind of like a cat staring unblinking at a particularly vocal bird outside the window, with Urianger (naturally) being the bird.But even if he didn't have particularly strong feelings about him prior to their adventures on the First, he's certainly become fond of him since - particularly with how kindly he treated Ryne and how he tempered Thancred's grief.Now, he's well on his way to falling in love and very much enjoys listening to Urianger ramble. He considers it to be quite endearing.

Haurchefant Greystone★ ★ ★ ★ ☆
♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♡Sometimes you think you're going to marry a guy and then he dies in your arms. Fucked up if true.More seriously, Haurchefant was a warm hearth in an absolute blizzard. The Falling Snows became a home to Alas'to after the Banquet and what had only been idle flirting during his previous visits to Coerthas became more earnest on both sides as Alas'to warmed up metaphorically.Despite the toll of his previous romantic tragedies, Alas'to had finally felt worthy of love. He pictured a future with Haurchefant and, prior to the events of the Vault, had anticipated one day getting married and growing old together.Needless to say, Haurchefant's death hit him hard.

Estinien Wyrmblood★ ★ ★ ★ ★
♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♡You will never understand a dragoon's bond.They have made out several times and have absolutely never talked about it afterwards.Regardless, Estinien became one of Alas'to's closest friends (if not the closest) over the course of Heavensward. His blunt, matter-of-fact nature is a refreshing change of pace and it's nice to be around a guy who really, truly understands the value of companionable silence.His recent induction into the Scions has been really amusing to Alas'to - as well as a chance to rebuild some bonds with a healthier foundation.

Aymeric de Borel★ ★ ★ ☆ ☆
♥ ♡ ♡ ♡ ♡After Haurchefant's death, Alas'to needed comfort and Aymeric was only to happy to provide that, even with the Keeper's stipulations that it was only physical.While they are steadfast friends and allies to this day, Alas'to is oblivious to the torch Aymeric carries for him.Oops.

Lyse Hext★ ★ ★ ★ ★
♥ ♡ ♡ ♡ ♡Back when she was hiding behind her sister's name, Lyse was one of the Scions Alas'to was closest to and one of his most frequent drinking companions/sparring partners.They've been somewhat out of contact since she became a leader of the Resistance, but since Alas'to brought the others back from the First, she's re-inserted herself back into his life (much to his delight).

Y'shtola Rhul★ ★ ★ ☆ ☆
♡ ♡ ♡ ♡ ♡While they respect each other and are dear friends, they don't talk in-depth particularly often.

Ardbert★ ★ ★ ★ ★
♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♡Ardbert :)

G'raha Tia★ ★ ★ ★ ☆
♡ ♡ ♡ ♡ ♡"Ahaha, you have a crush on me? That's so cute, buddy."In all seriousness, they became fast friends during the Crystal Tower expedition and Alas'to was deeply upset by the other miqo'te's choice to stay behind. But while he adores G'raha, he does not return the feelings that the other has held onto for over a century and was just kind of bemused when he actually noticed.He's since been gently let down.

Emet-Selch★ ☆ ☆ ☆ ☆
♡ ♡ ♡ ♡ ♡It's complicated. Alas'to didn't care much for him either way, though he did find him mildly amusing aside from the atrocities. And yet, there was always something so unnervingly familiar about him.In a life long, long ago, Hades and Apollo were the dearest of friends, but - as in every incarnation - Apollo was very physically affectionate while not altogether clear about the line of friendly and romantic. The relationship between the two friends turned physical, but when Apollo realized that what he meant as an extension of pre-existing friendly affection was being seen as something more, he backed off to let his friend down as easily as possible.Hades was left nursing a miserable pain in his chest, but when two people know each others' souls so deeply, heartbreak hurts less than being alone.And then, he was alone regardless.Alas'to is the clearest reflection of Apollo in ages and the multiple Rejoinings only made his soul brighter, harder to ignore. Both are/were so strong in their convictions, but restless and ever-moving, always searching for something just out of reach. He is so, so similar, but that only serves to make the differences more jarring.He's not Azem, he's not Apollo. He's wrong.And even if he wasn't, what would that mean for Emet-Selch? For Hades?In the end, it changed nothing.

Alisaie Levilleur★ ★ ★ ★ ★Alisaie is like a second little sister to him and he couldn't be happier to have her in his life.They bond by lovingly teasing Alphinaud.

Alphinaud Levilleur★ ★ ★ ★ ★Alas'to is so proud of how much this twerp has grown and can't wait to see where he goes from here.They are very close and Alas'to sees him as a younger brother.

Niamh Dhonmi★ ★ ★ ★ ☆Five years his junior, Niamh is Alas'to's little sister. While he played a major role in raising her, they grew apart after he came out due to the distance his change in role put between them.Regardless, they're on good terms now and they still keep in touch via letters.

Tuko Lukosch★ ★ ★ ★ ★
♥ ♡ ♡ ♡ ♡The first time the two met, they were both greenhorns in the Lancer's Guild, unused to adventuring and the particular discomforts of Gridanian society. While their paths diverged as they both honed their skills, they bumped into each other again years later as Scions in the Rising Stones and easily rekindled their friendship, bonding over their love of dance.Also, Tuko has promised to teach him how to fish![ Player ]Married 10/16/2021 for tax benefits (aka cute clothes)

Name★ ☆ ☆ ☆ ☆
♥ ♡ ♡ ♡ ♡This could be YOU!